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My Theme for 2011

It’s New Year’s Eve. As we bid a year farewell and usher in a New Year [sans Snooki in Times Square], we are all making resolutions and commitments to guide us into the next 365 day marathon we call a year.

I’m canning the idea of having resolutions because in all honesty I’ll probably break them within a few weeks. Instead, I’m picking a theme that I want to mark 2011… a theme that will guide choices and decisions I make… a theme that will hopefully be consistent for me throughout the year.

My theme for 2011 is HEALTH.

I know everyone is on the health bandwagon at the beginning of the year but for me it’s not just about going on a crash diet, getting a gym membership that will be barely used, or getting PX90 [although a friend of mine did last year and had amazing results]. For me, I want to focus on being healthy in three specific areas of my life: Body, Mind, and Soul.

Healthy Body

I go through seasons of being into exercise, eating healthy and being disciplined with my body, but as of late that hasn’t been the case. That’s going to change this year. Putting out there like this sort of obligates me to it so that’s why I’m writing it.

I recently joined my neighborhood gym and to jumpstart the New Year I’ve purchased 2 months worth of personal training sessions.

Oh yeah, it’s on… watch out!

But for real, I am ready to have a healthier lifestyle and actually enjoy it. Buying that many sessions was a huge financial commitment [on a church staff salary!] but I’m looking at it as an investment in myself and I’m praying it pays off!

I’m meeting with my trainer over the weekend and I’m sure that’s where we will tackle the nitty-gritty with diet and everything else, but I’m ready!

Healthy Mind

I am a HUGE fan of counseling. For awhile it was surrounded by an odd stigma for me, but when I finally took the step and went I found it was one of the best decisions I had ever made. I’ve gone to counseling on and off for the past few years and have found it to be so helpful and enlightening on so many levels. You don’t have to be facing some terrible situation or challenge to necessitate going, it’s just good to have a safe place and safe person to dialogue with and have insight gleaned from an outside perspective. I believe counseling is one of the healthiest ways we can all care for ourselves.

Given some of the major changes in my life as of late… transitioning out of every day church life into consulting, etc… I felt like this would be a great opportunity for me to go through individual counseling. So, just yesterday I went to a new counseling center and will begin regular counseling sessions to process, learn, and grow through this new season of life. I’m so excited.

Healthy Soul

Oh my soul.

For the first time in my adult life I’ll actually be able to attend church as an everyday person and not a staff member. That’s pretty freaking exciting to me. No responsibilities, no people coming up to me to ask me questions… it’s going to be so nice! I really believe it will be one of the best things for my soul, and, ironically, I will be attending Soul City Church.

I think in ministry one of the easiest things we can neglect is our own soul and spiritual growth. We can get so busy doing the work of ministry that we don’t allow God the time or space in own lives to minister to us. I definitely have been guilty of that. My newfound freedom of not being obligated to go to church because I work for one will be interesting. It will be great to go because I want to and even greater to be plugged into a new church community that’s different than the one I’ve been connected to.

Soul City is a great place and has some great things happening and I’m so excited to attend, connect with others in community, contribute and be involved as an Everyday Joe. I really believe it’s going to be a transformational experience for me and I can’t wait to see what God will do.

So there you go. It’s out there. Healthy is my theme for 2011… a healthy mind, healthy body and healthy soul.

What’s your theme for 2011?

Top 10 of 2010

Well, since it’s that time of the year for lists…

This year over 200,000 people visited this little blog… thanks for reading, I’m blown away! I posted exactly 189 blog posts [about 1/3 of which were conference notes!], but only 10 could make the Top 10 of 2010!

#10 Decisions
All of our lives are marked by moments of decision. In this post I shared about a step of faith I took in making a decision to leave Park staff without having another job. Fortunately, God provided and I start the new adventure next week!

#9 Stop Speaking in Tongues
It’s not what you think I mean, I’m a charismatic kid at heart. However, many churches are speaking in tongues, using language that’s hard for people to understand. In this post I share some ideas on how to make sure you’re clearly communicating and not leaving people scratching their heads.

#8 What Happened to Wonder?
As my friend Blaine Hogan says, “the artist is the new pastor.” In this rant I share some thoughts on the loss of wonder in churches and the role the arts will play in saving the  Church.

#7 REWORK-ing Church Communications
I was honored to do a breakout session at the ECHO Church Media Conference inspired by this post where I shared ideas to help church communications directors rework the way their churches communicate. You can read notes from the session here or grab an audio copy, along with other great content from ECHO 2010 here.

#6 No One Cares About Your Church
Again, the contrarian in me. Synopsis: People don’t trust advertising and definitely don’t like the church, so why do we try and market the Church? I argue that we have to earn the right to be heard. This article was also republished by Catalyst.

#5 Delivering Happiness :: Q&A with Tony Hsieh, Jason Fried, and David Heinemeier-Hansson
As a part of the Delivering Happiness Tour, Tony Hsieh from Zappos.com made a stop at the 37signals offices in Chicago to do a Q&A with 37signals’ Jason Fried and David Heinemeier-Hansson.  I was one of 37 lucky people who was able to sit in on the Q&A and I was sure to take some notes! There’s some great insights here on office culture, hiring, customer service, and more.

#4 Willow Creek Association Global Leadership Summit Notes
Ok, so this isn’t an individual post but a collection of all of my notes from the Global Leadership Summit. I was honored to serve with the Willow Creek Association team helping to lead social media and blogging for the Summit. There was some great content from people like Bill Hybels, Jim Collins, Christine Caine, T.D. Jakes, Daniel Pink, and more!

#3 Announcing OUTSPOKEN
Probably one of the big highlights of the year for me personally was announcing the collaborative book project I’m heading up called OUTSPOKEN: Conversations on Church Communications. Over 60 church communications leaders from around the globe are contributing to one of the most comprehensive books on church communication. Release date is Spring 2011!

#2 10 Things That Drive Me Crazy About Working for a Church
Let me be clear: I LOVED working for a church but in this post that was inspired by my favorite book of 2010, REWORK, I shared some of the things that drove me crazy about working for a church. This post went on to be featured on the Catalyst blog, the Christian Post,Monday Morning Insight, and even garnered a counter-post from Tim Stevens of Granger Community Church.

#1 A Different Kind of Demonstration at Gay Pride
With over 106,000 views, 27,000 Facebook “Likes”, and over 1,000 tweets, this post took the prize for #1 by a long shot. In this post, I shared the moving story of a group of Christians who took the streets with during Chicago’s gay pride with a different message… an apology. I also wrote a follow-up to this post, Church Communications Lessons from the Gay Pride Demonstration.

It’s been an amazing year, that’s for sure.

I’ve had some amazing experiences and opportunities and am thankful to have had you join me along the way. Thanks for reading, Liking, commenting, tweeitng, and sharing!!

2010 has been a great year and I am so excited for what’s ahead in 2011!

Farewell Park

When my brother and sister both kept talking about this new church they had found I was very intrigued. My brother had already gotten involved on the worship team and my sister, who had written off church in college, had started attending and even got involved in a small group.  I was definitely excited to check this place out.

I made a weekend trip to visit them and on a frigid Sunday morning in January 2007, we braved the elements to attend a service. The church didn’t have a building of its own yet, so they met in a school on Clark Street in Chicago’s Lincoln Park neighborhood. Despite the frigid temperatures, the auditorium was packed with 20-and-30-somethings, young families and children. We were late getting there so the ushers took us to the only free seats in the place… on the front row. The energy in the room was electric. That particular Sunday each of the church’s elders took turns teaching, sharing the vision of the church. As I sat there, heard the vision, and imagined with them at what was possible, I knew this was something I wanted to be a part of.

The following day I went on their website, and to be honest, I was quite surprised. It was a great website but it didn’t quite match what I had experienced in person the day before. Armed with some courage believing that I could help them out, I drafted an email and threw together and a resume and portfolio and clicked “Send.”

A few phone calls and three months later, I began an incredible, nearly four-year journey, of being the Director of Communications at Park Community Church. On my first day I blogged, ” I know I’m jumping into something that is going to take me on the ride of my life.” Those words could not have been more true.

I’ve spent most of this week going through all of my files, reflecting and remembering what has been an incredible journey serving on staff at Park. Looking back over my time here the word that keeps coming to mind is grateful. I am so incredibly thankful and grateful for this experience, and more than humbled by the opportunity and gift God gave me in leading here.

A lot has changed at Park.

When I started on staff we met at Francis Parker School with about 800 people in average weekly attendance. Our building was just a shell of an old warehouse in the changing Cabrini-Green neighborhood. Our staff had about 18 people. We rented office space in Old Town above a Starbucks and a Thai restaurant and later moved to the 21st floor of the John Hancock Center before moving into our building in 2008.

Today, well over 2,500 people attend Park in three locations in neighborhoods across the city. Our staff is over 30 people and our building, which opened in 2008, has not only served our church but has become a fixture in our local neighborhood, hosting various events and outreaches for our community. Park is reaching new people every day and is living out its vision to be a biblical community where the Gospel of Jesus Christ transforms lives, renews the city, and impacts the world.

In my time serving at Park I’ve caused a bit of a ruckus… I helped rebrand the church, launched a new website [and 2 iterations since!], transitioned to an almost paperless communications strategy including killing the weekly bulletin, leveraged texting and social media to engage with our congregation, and helped to shape Park into what it is today.

Over the past few years there have been so many highlights and things I could share but I have to be honest… the highlight of my time at Park wasn’t so much the work I did or was a part of, but what God did in my own heart and life through this season. I feel like I came here bright-eyed and still wet behind the ears, and in my time here have grown up, matured, found my voice, and most importantly, found myself and God’s calling for my life. God has worked in my life in some deeply significant ways and revealed Himself and His strength through my weakness.

I’ve learned how to navigate and lead a somewhat normal existence in the chaos of city life [and absolutely LOVE it!], have found an incredible community of friends who are like family, and learned so much about God and myself in the process. I’ve had some of the most amazing opportunities, been a part of some incredible experiences, and have met people who I know will be friends for life. It hasn’t always been easy and there have definitely been challenges, but I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything.

I leave Park today with nothing but respect and admiration for the leadership and thankfulness for the opportunity to serve here. When I look back and see how God brought me here and what I’ve been able to do while I’ve been on staff, I’m just in awe of His faithfulness…. it’s been through Him, by His grace and for His glory.

To remember my first Sunday attending Park, hearing the vision and imagining what was possible, and to see where we are today is just a remarkable thing. To have been a small part of a significant chapter in the life of the church is something that I consider an immense honor and made for some of the most exciting and fulfilling seasons of ministry I’ve been a part of to date.

I am so excited for what God has already done at Park and know that even greater things are yet to come. The vision of and the heart of Park’s leadership will continue to see the church grow in size and influence, but most importantly, see more people find life transformation through the Gospel. I am so expectant to see what God will do!

I’m thrilled that in my new role I’ll continue to be able to work with the Church on a larger scale and recognize that none of this would have been possible without my time and work at Park. I cannot thank the team at Park enough for their support, encouragement, trust, grace when there were typos, and their willingness to take a risk and try new things. My experience here has built a platform for me to share and influence others and will now be a gift to other churches.

To Jackson, Donna, Steve, Jonthan, John, JR, Ty, Kensen, Joe, Scott, Bill, Kevin, Zach, Emily, Meghan, Laurel, Alicia, Sharon, Sandy, Alisha, Sheri, Laura, Mabrie, Josh, Jen, Bret, Lisa, Christine, Megan, Bob, Lindsey, Mario, Lyndsay, Annika, Rachael, Terry, Debra, Andrea, Whitney, Matt, Tim, Curtis, Andrew, Brian, Aaron, Jason, Mary, Becky, Joseph, Jim, Laura, John [and anyone else I forgot!]… it’s been a privilege to serve with you at Park. You are all some of the most remarkable people I know and it’s been an honor to be on this exciting adventure with you. I’m thankful for all of you and for the impact your life has made on mine.

To Josh Burns, who is taking my spot at Park… Dude, I am so excited for you! The first time I met you I had this sneaky suspicion you’d have my job one day and who knew it would come so fast. It’s been a blast working with you and I am so thankful for your friendship and passion for the Church… I know you are going to do great things Park and am excited to follow your journey.

To all of you who have followed along through this blog, thank you! I so appreciate each one of you and am so thankful for the work you are all doing in your own churches… keep up the great work!

As one chapter closes and a new one begins, I’m grateful for what God has already done and expectant for what’s in store… for me and for Park!

I thought it would only be fitting to close this post with this song… Love you guys!

[BTW, this song is a complete joke... ]

Monday Morning Mind Dump

  • This is it… my last week at Park Community Church. I am so thankful, excited, hopeful, emotional, reflective, and reminded of God’s faithfulness. It’s been an incredible experience and I will miss this church and this team deeply! But, I am so excited for what’s next!
  • In case you missed it last week, I shared An Open Letter to Church Communication Directors. If that’s you, make sure you check it out.
  • In other news, Cultivate 11 is already shaping to be something incredible. Dawn Nicole Baldwin and I make a killer team and so much has happened in the last week after a big brainstorm conference call. We’ve already got 3 confirmed speakers and a number of panelists confirmed. It’s going to be EPIC! [I said it.] The website will relaunch in early January with the help of our friend and social media mastermind Jim Gray. In the meantime, Like us on Facebook to stay connected.
  • So are you as geeked as I am about Word Lens? I bought a book in Spanish this weekend just to use it.
  • In wintertime I usually opt for cabs over buses and trains. On Saturday I took a cab downtown to do some Christmas shopping and had the coolest cab driver I’ve ever had. He [and his wife who was riding along in the front seat, a little awkward at first] immigrated here from India 20 years ago and worked to own his own cab medallion [over $700,000] and can tell you pretty much anything you need to know about Chicago history. He was the neatest guy ever and his wife gave me a Reece’s Peanut Butter Cup! Little things like that make me LOVE living in the city.
  • Call me old-fashioned, but I still love going to the mall and doing my Christmas shopping. I did some online but for some reason I still enjoy the chaos, long lines, crying children, adults wearing reindeer antlers, and gaudy holiday window displays.
  • Following the old-fashionedness… I ordered personalized Christmas cards this year from MOOcards and wrote out over 100 cards with personal messages and even hand-wrote the addresses. I realized about 20 cards into the ordeal that it was a bad idea and that my handwriting is absolutely terrible.
  • I’m headed home for Christmas on Thursday afternoon and excited to see my family! What are you up to this Christmas?