- The process is often far more important than the product.
- The local church should shave the best organization in your city.
- The Monday-Friday life of your church should be as excellent as your weekends.
- We have huge advantages… shared faith, shared values, honor, integrity, clear mission, etc.
- Mark 10:32-45
- …not so with you.
- …not so with me.
- Jesus introduced a new paradigm for leadership.
- Jesus argued against the way it was done.
- Whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant.
- In being a leader you are becoming a servant of all.
- You’re not abdicating leadership or abandoning authority, you are becoming a slave or servant of all.
- Even the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve.
- Jesus is the head of the Church.
- The message of mutual submission: I’m here to facilitate your success regardless of where either of us shows up on the organizational church.
- The assumption of mutual submission: While our responsibilities differ, we are both essential to the success of the enterprise.
- The question of mutual submission asks: “What can I do to help?”
- The Gospel is God looking down from Heaven asking, “What can I do to help?”
- He looked at our pitiful situation and sent His Son for us.
- Great leaders don’t serve over, they serve under.
- How can you leverage your power and your influence to make others successful?
- There is no such thing as God’s anointing on a man or woman of God for ministry.
- The Anointed One is Jesus.
- The idea of us being the “anointed” is an Old Testament way of thinking that works against the way Jesus taught.
- The New Testament way of thinking teaches that every part of the body of Christ is essential.
- The idea of “the anointed” creeps away into the way we looks at and approach our leadership.
- We set up our pastors for failure and set our staff up with unhealthy patterns.
- Jesus gave us a brand-new view of leadership that is all about leveraging our authority for other people’s benefit.
- We are all essential.
- Abandon the way of thinking of a pastor as being “the anointed.”
- That doesn’t dishonor your pastors or leaders, it protects them.
The ultimate dysfunction of a team is the tendency of members to care about something other than the collective goals of the group… Team status and individual status are prime candidates. – The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni
Best Practices
Do for one what you wish you could for everyone.
- “If I do it for you, I’ll have to do it for everyone…”
- If you want to create a culture of mutual submission, look for opportunities to be fair.
- Fairness is not a biblical value.
- Fairness ended at the Garden.
- Don’t be fair, be engaged.
- If you use fairness as an excuse to not be engaged, you’re living unbiblically.
- Without margin, there is no room to serve.
- Without margin we seek first our kingdoms.
- What’s rewarded is repeated.
- What’s most important, building a great organization or building a great name for yourself?
- Loyalty isn’t a fruit of the spirit.
- If you have to ask people to be loyal you have an organizational problem.
- If you ask for it or demand it, you are the one with a loyalty issue.
- If you can’t serve people so well to the point they wouldn’t be loyal to you, you’ve got a leadership problem.
- You don’t need loyalty if you’re leading well.
- If you need it, you need counseling.

